Sex: tips on how to get her aroused and in the mood

Tips on How to Get Her in the Mood

When it comes to foreplay and sexual excitement, a woman can be a closed book. Unfortunately, this leaves many men puzzled and wondering where to go next. Since women tend to better understand the needs of other women, homosexual relationships pose less of a problem in this regard. But the poor men; they are frequently caught between a rock and a hard place. According to most women, it’s because they’ve done something wrong.

Getting a woman in the mood is not as hard as you may think. If you’re a man involved in a heterosexual relationship, you’ve no doubt encountered your share of struggles when it comes to your partner’s approachability. Fact is, many men can’t help but to overdo the physical aspect of romance, much to the dismay of his female partner. It’s not that women don’t enjoy the nitty-gritty of it all. In most cases, they are just in need of a different type of affection or attention.
If you want to open the doors to a woman’s heart (and bed), it never hurts to compliment her. 

Some women can be tough to work around – particularly those who are suffering from low self-esteem – but it will be well-worth the effort. If you comment on your partner’s amazing body and she shuts you down by pointing out the extra weight she’s gained, don’t stop trying. Many men give up too easily out of sheer frustration, but sometimes your partner just needs to be validated. To shake it up a bit, try giving her a few compliments that you haven’t uttered before. There’s no need to be vulgar at this stage, so focus on the less-noticed aspects of her face and body. You’d be surprised by how many women are turned on by the right compliment in the right moment.

If your girl is a romantic at heart, get romantic. While flowers and chocolates are nice, they’ve become so clichéd that your partner might actually consider it a cop-out. Put some thought into it. Show up at her office for an impromptu lunch, or have a hot bath ready for her at the end of a long day. Women love to be taken care of – even those who are incredibly independent – when the effort makes their lives easier. Put yourself in your partner’s shoes for a moment and determine what you could do to create a smoother day for her. Do it. Now, sit back as the thank-yous start to surface.